The best part of this list, which was devised by sex therapist Vanessa Marin? All you need is you and your partner and a little bit of time (and maybe some lube, too). Block off some free time for tonight — this is going to be fun.
THE INTERNET IS YOUR FRIEND!
"There's no need to race to the sex store to pick up fancy whips and chains. "Google 'creative sex positions,' and pick one you've never tried out before," says Marin.
GET LOUD
To quote the iconic Jennifer Lopez, "let's get loud." Or, in Marin's words: "See what it's like to be more vocal. If you don't usually moan, see what it's like to make a bit of noise!"
WORK FROM HOME
"When you're both home, start sending each other dirty texts and pictures. See who can hold out the longest before going to find the other partner," says Marin. That will probably make you want to find an excuse to work from home, although if you are working from home, you probably shouldn't expect to get a lot done...
GET HANDSY
What's hotter than your favorite porn? Your partner, getting off. "Masturbate in front of each other, either together or one at a time," she says.
GO BACK TO HIGH SCHOOL (ISH)
...Well, not really, because that would be weird. But take a tip from your formative years and see how hot you can get from staying on first base. "Have a long make-out session. Don't allow yourselves to do anything other than kiss for at least 20 minutes," Marin suggests.
MAYBE PRETEND YOU'RE FOLDING LAUNDRY?
"Go into your bedroom, undress, and innocently call your partner into the room," Marin suggests. Folding the laundry never sounded so enticing...
EYES WIDE OPEN
See what's happening with your partner! "Try to keep your eyes open and make eye contact during sex," Marin suggests. Bonus points — try to keep your eyes open during orgasm."
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